Saturday, June 2, 2012

Creatively Manage Your Career!

I am a bit of a "maverick" when it comes to "careers". Seven years in sales, seven years in "human resources management" and now just completed two years in the "market research and consulting" business.

With about 25 years of active work life still ahead of me, I am kind of approaching the midpoint of my career, so I thought it will be worthwhile, to crystallise some of my key observations and learning's (it's not an exhaustive list and is presented in no particular order of priority). So let's start with the fun part:

Managers are interesting specimens

Their key role is to ensure that the company gets the expected returns on the investment they have made on you. Each one will tell you how different and unique they are compared to the rest. Some inspire you; some closely watch over your shoulders whilst others plainly speaking, annoy you. 

In my first job, as a sales representative, one of the harrowing tasks of my manager was to get me excited about the annual sales targets (which we all know, grows well above the industry average and is quite achievable, because the company only hires the best people from the market)      

Work-life balance is really not that complicated...

...as long as you are able to work the stipulated 40 to 45 hours/week. How you manage the extra work load, whenever and as often that comes, without disturbing your daily routine or weekends is balancing work and life.

The company's gymnasiums & other sport facilities, if you are in the IT industry are generally used by those who are in between projects because the others have little time for it. The number of statutory annual leaves as applicable in any country has been thoughtfully provisioned, so that we can maintain our sanity, so please avail of it, to ensure you remain productive and relevant to your organisation.

When you see colleagues regularly sending office emails at 2am or on weekends, it is not rocket science to realise that they have been asked to do more than what can be done in a 40 hour week. My simple advise, don't get into the rat race, be human and fully alive, you will not regret that decision ever, and what's more important, you won't die as a rat.   

Cost of living always grows faster than your earnings

Income tax, rentals, interest rates, and in general, the overall cost of living grows faster than the annual pay raise the company can afford. We are told that our success is tied to the success of the organisation but very often, when the company does actually succeed, the distribution of wealth created is inequitable.

For example, India now has nearly 7% of the world's 1,000 or so billionaires. The total wealth of Indian billionaires is more than 20% of the nation's GDP (estimated by IMF at US$1.67 trillion in 2011). However, the appalling truth is that about 456 million Indians (37.8%) of the total population still live below the poverty line earning under US$1.25 per day. 

So get over thinking that you are being paid below market rates, if you are so good then go ahead and make the shift, you will soon realise what your market rate is.

Now let's turn our attention to how we can creatively manage our careers:

You are solely responsible for enhancing your market value

Success is not an accident; it is always the outcome of careful planning and goal setting. I cannot emphasise this enough. If you don't know where you want to go, any road will take you there.

If leveraging your skills/competencies in your areas of strengths shifts from low to high as we move right on the X axis and job satisfaction/fulfillment moves northward from low to high on the Y axis, then the top right hand quadrant is where we all must be operating from or at least try getting there. People operating in that quadrant will always be in high demand. After studying nearly 500 years of success literature, Steven Covey rightly identified, "beginning with the end in mind" as the second habit of highly effective people, "being proactive" is the first.

Invest time/effort/money in your professional skills development/education

Winning the first place at the Toastmasters' International Speech Contest at the Area Level in March 2012
It is never too late to learn new skills, it just requires focused attention. Skills development does not end with graduation or post graduation, that is only the basic foundation. We must avail every opportunity to learn and develop new skills to keep from stagnating. Envisioning the ideal characteristics for each of your aspirational roles and understanding what areas you need to work on is a critical success factor for career progression.

Work is not just about earning money  

Picture Courtesy: U&I, Bangalore, India
I think the greatest responsibility of being well educated, is to be able to make a meaning and constructive contribution back to the broader society that we are part of. Undoubtedly, we have to be profitable to the organisations we work for and there is absolutely nothing wrong to make profits and create wealth ethically. 


It is the Lord our God who gives us the power to get wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18).


However, there is a higher purpose in the respective vocations that we serve in, one which is fundamentally very important.

God is shaping the history of our generation through ordinary people like you and I. Wherever we are and whatever we have been called to do, our work is our ministry to our community and society. Apart from excelling in our work and professions, we must step out and be a "catalyst" of change in building an equitable society based on the principles of universal brotherhood, justice, love and peace.

Monday, May 28, 2012

My Winning Speech!

Proudly, presenting my Toastmasters' winning speech now on video. Many thanks to Paul Cavallo for his excellent piece of creativity in making this video!

Please click on the link below to watch the video.

What Really Matters? 


Many blessings,


Raj

Saturday, May 19, 2012

The Life I Want To Live!

I have not been keeping too well with a bout of cold and cough
My body feels tired and I sense I need an extra quota of rest
Days pass by filled with endless activities
My calendar quickly keeps filling with appointments and scheduled meetings

Sometimes I just feel like breaking away and get away from this mundane routine
I am busy building something which will not last anyway, is it, worth it then?
"It's not about me but for the family", I say
On the other hand, "how long?" 

What is it that I am really after?
It all gets so blurred, at times...
"Why do adult responsibilities have to stifle the freedom of youth?"
"Do we have to necessarily follow the norm and live according to protocol", a nagging thought

When will I be able to live the life I really want to live?
Do the things I want to do?
Neither shackled by mortgage payments nor corporate diktat
Free from the predictable precision of each day of every week

Money does not solve these issues, I have realised
From 2000 to 2012, my finances grew multifold, exponentially
But my wants always managed to keep ahead of my needs
The gap, in fact, always remains and perhaps only widens more

What then, I want to do with my life?
If I can answer this one question, may be, it will be easier to work backwards

"Live a simple and quiet life in a small town, away from the shimmer and glamour of the big city, giving into the lives of others: encouraging and inspiring, without any cares!"
"Be a successful business leader, a Godly influence in the market place, His ambassador unto His glory"

"Be a civil servant and work in the government to influence and shape policy and strategy, to build an equitable, just and humane society"
"Be an itinerant minister to a nation or nations, as God leads, building His kingdom, here on earth and share the good news of salvation with all peoples"

Well atleast, I now have my choices listed...
Only time, however, will tell which one will be my destiny or may be He has a surprise in store...
The one thing I do know with absolute certainty, is that it will be an awesome adventure!
For I walk with the ONE who brought my life into being by the power of His word and who holds all creation together!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

The Pathway that Leads to Life! (concluding part)

Joshua was a man of great power and authority, yet he himself acted under God's commands. He was commanded to do according to all that is written, without exception or reserve. Likewise, it is not enough for us to hear and read the word, to commend and admire it, to know and remember it, to talk and discourse of it, but we must do it.

In the first part of this post, we examined 5 biblical truths based on the 3rd chapter in the book of Proverbs, namely:

  1. ABIDE IN GOD'S WORD
  2. HOLD ON TO HIS PROMISES
  3. TRUST GOD WHOLEHEARTEDLY
  4. HONOR THE LORD WITH YOUR POSSESSIONS
  5. DO NOT DESPISE THE CHASTENING OF THE LORD
Today, we will continue unraveling His word and by His grace integrate these biblical principles of wisdom and virtue into our lives.

6. PURSUE WISDOM DILIGENTLY

One of the primary themes of Proverbs is wisdom. The words "wisdom", "wise" and "understanding" occur more than 140 times. Wisdom is frequently contrasted with foolishness. Wisdom brings life, blessing, honor and the favor of God, while foolishness brings death, poverty, condemnation and disgrace. Proverbs urges us to seek diligently and earnestly after wisdom. 

Happy is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding; for her proceeds are better than the profits of silver, and her gain than fine gold (Proverbs 3: 13-14)

7. WALK IN GOD'S WISDOM

Then you will walk safely in your way, and your foot will not stumble. When you lie down, you will not be afraid; yes, you will lie down and your sleep will be sweet (Prov 3:23-24)

In our modern world, in spite of the advances made in science and technology, work related stress and pressures are quite rampant amongst workers and professionals. This affects the individual's health, quality of life, relationships and the family. Walking in God's wisdom enables us to live without any fear, whatsoever and what's more fascinating, the bible tells us, sleep well at night

For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught (Prov. 3:26)

8. BE A FAITHFUL STEWARD IN MANAGING FINANCES

True wisdom consists in the due discharge of our duty towards man, as well as towards God, in honesty. This requires us to:

  • render dues both to the church (tithe and offerings) and state (taxes)
  • provide sufficiently for our family and those that have dependence on us
  • pay our debts without fraud or delay
  • be mindful of using our employer's resources to maximise profits for the business and not for any personal use or gains
  • give fair wages to those employed by us
  • be charitable to the poor and those who are in need


Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in the power of your hand to do so (Prov 3:27) 

9. DO NOT ENVY THE WICKED

Don't worry about the wicked or envy those who do wrong. For like grass, they soon fade away. Like spring flowers, they soon wither (Psalm 37: 1-2)

We must never envy the prosperity of the evil doers. Choose none of their ways or  imitate them. Their success and prosperity is short lived and in the end it will bring them disgrace. Our reliance must be on God alone, who communicates His wise counsel to the upright.

For the perverse person is an abomination to the Lord, but His secret counsel is with the upright (Prov. 3: 32)

10. KNOW THAT OUR INHERITANCE IS ETERNAL GLORY

Those who humble themselves shall be exalted, for God gives grace to the lowly; He works that in them which brings honor and great blessings.

For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord will give grace and glory; no good thing will He uphold from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11)

The inheritance of the wise shall be eternal glory in Christ Jesus, our Lord and Saviour!

The wise shall inherit glory, but shame shall be the legacy of fools (Prov. 3:35)

Sunday, May 6, 2012

The Pathway That Leads To Life!

Youth is an important learning age, a time when we receive impressions, and retain what is then received; it is therefore of great consequence that the mind be seasoned well by the wisdom of God's word.

It is my earnest desire that these ten biblical truths based on the 3rd chapter in the Book of Proverbs will season the minds of the rising generation with the generous principles of wisdom and virtue.

1. ABIDE IN HIS WORD

Then Jesus said to those Jews who believed Him, "If you abide in My word, you are my disciples indeed. And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:31-32)

The truth of His word sets us free from every bondage and the corruption of sin. We can live the abundance of life in the Holy Spirit as sons and daughters of the Most High God. The bible says God's word is a lamp to our feet and a light for our path (Psalm 119:105). Without a proper foundation in spiritual realities, we will be carried away this way and that way by whatever attracts our senses. On the other hand, abiding in His word lengthens the days of our life and blesses us with a long life and peace.  

My son, do not forget my law, but let your heart keep my commands; for length of days and long life and peace they will add to you. (Proverbs 3: 1-2)

2. HOLD ON TO HIS PROMISES

For all the promises of God in Christ are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us. (2 Cor. 1:20)

It is the greatest honor we are capable of in this world, to meditate on God's mercy as revealed by the death of Jesus Christ on the cross and His everlasting faithfulness, to restore and lead us on the paths of righteousness. As we build our lives on the truth of His promises, His word that is written on our hearts becomes the most powerful influence to guide and shape our lives.

Let nor mercy and truth forsake you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart, and so find favor and high esteem in the sight of God and man. (Proverbs 3: 3-4)

3. TRUST GOD WHOLEHEARTEDLY

We must repose our full confidence in the wisdom, power and goodness of God. We must believe that He is able to do what He said He will and is wise to do what is best and good for us. Those that put themselves under divine guidance shall always have the benefit of it. Those that faithfully follow the pillar of cloud and fire shall find that it leads them the right way and will bring them to Canaan at last.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3: 5-6)

4. HONOR THE LORD WITH YOUR POSSESSIONS

We must honor Him, not only with our bodies and spirits which are His, but with our estates too, for they also are His: we and all our possessions must be devoted to His glory. Worldly wealth is but a poor substance, yet, such as it is, we must honor God with it. We mistake, if we think that giving will undo us and make us poor. No, giving for God's honor will make us rich.

Honor the Lord with your possessions, and with the first fruits of all your increase; so your barns will be filled with plenty and your vats will overflow with new wine. (Proverbs 3: 9 - 10)

5. DO NOT DESPISE THE CHASTENING OF THE LORD

We must not be weary of an affliction, be it every so heavy and long, not faint under it, not be dispirited, or be driven to despair. We must not think that the affliction either presses harder or continues longer than is required, not conclude that deliverance will never come because it does not come so soon as we expect it.

When troubles come our way (e.g. financial hardships, unemployment, relationship challenges, sickness etc), we ought to be sure that a God of unspotted purity will do us no wrong and that a God of infinite goodness means us no hurt. He is with us, in our toughest trials and will meet our every need both temporal and spiritual.

My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, nor detest His correction; for whom the Lord loves He corrects, just as a father the son in whom he delights. (Proverbs 3: 11-12)

...to be continued

Saturday, April 28, 2012

We Can Fly!

A young girl in Arizona, USA, presents herself for the test, to obtain her driving license. The inspector gets into the car. On seeing her, he stares with shock and disbelief. The girl has no arms and the car is not fitted with any special equipment. 

She dazzles the inspector by her unusual driving skills, using her right foot she steers the car and alternatively, accelerates and brakes with her left foot.

Jessica Cox
Jessica Cox, not only got her driving license but she now holds the Guinness World Record for becoming the first armless person in aviation history to have obtained a pilot's license in 2011.

I had the wonderful privilege to listen and meet Jessica, at a conference in Sydney and was truly inspired by her indomitable strength and courage. 


On Sunday, 22 April, I lined up to compete with 6 other Area Winners at the Division Level, Toastmaster's International Speech Contest. It was a nerve wrecking experience to compete with the best speakers from 38 local clubs.

There were about 160 people in the audience. I got to the stage, the 5th speaker and  started off perfectly, exactly as per plan. 2.5 minutes into a 7 minute speech and the Titanic hit the iceberg. I had a blank screen in my mind and stood speechless for about 10 to 15 seconds  simply staring at the audience. The quietness of the silence was deep, as if everything had come to a stand still.

Thankfully, after a few tense moments, I recovered and continued without losing any momentum. However, I had lost an important part of  my speech. Eventually, when the winners were announced, I had not made it to the top 3.   

In the midst of the failure, I walked out a "winner" inside, proud, that in spite of the momentary lapse, I recovered composure, gathered momentum and finished elegantly. My resolve to come back and win is as strong as steel.

Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood. By seeing the seed of success in every failure, I remain hopeful about tomorrow.  Nothing, absolutely nothing can stop us from achieving the dreams closest to our heart... just like Jessica Cox, we all can fly!

Often the difference between a successful person and a failure, is not that one has better abilities, but the grit and courage...to not give up, to rise after every fall. It is this tenacity which distinguishes the people who inspire us and who stretch the horizons of what we can do and achieve!

Finally, more important than any of our earthly pursuits, is a far more greater aspect of our lives i.e. our spiritual destiny. The death of a man from Nazareth on a cross at Golgotha, on the outskirts of the city of Jerusalem, has made it possible for us to live to our fullest potential.

By His death, He paid the price for all our sins. He defeated the works of Satan, who now has been totally disarmed and yields no power, whatsoever, for anyone, who believes in Jesus Christ. Even death could not hold Him down, for on the third day, He rose again from the dead and became the New Adam, in whom we all have the promise of eternal life forever!

So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God (Romans 5:11)

Each of us, has been created to fly, to soar the heavenly skies, to fulfill our God ordained destinies. Our time here on earth is brief and limited but the life hereafter will last forever. The greatest discovery, we will ever make in this life, is to know who we are in Christ, for in Him, our capacities are without any boundaries and our possibilities, unlimited.

I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly (John 10:10) 

Monday, April 23, 2012

Sex and the Supremacy of Christ!

The more I know Christ, the more in me, is the growing desire to be like Him in all things. One of the areas where I am constantly challenged in my flesh, is that of my sexuality. Take for instance the words of Jesus:

You have heard the commandment that says. "You must not commit adultery." But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5:27-28)

The dilemma I face, is how can I control the strong sexual desires within me and bring it to the obedience of Christ every time I find myself sexually attracted to another woman. It is far from simple and not just a matter of my will and self control.

  • Is then knowing Christ - the path to sexual purity?
  • Is it indeed the case that the true knowledge of God brings the powerful passions of my body under the sway of truth and purity and love?


SEX IS GOOD

Sex by design is good since God created human beings in his image - "male and female he created them " (Gen 1:27) - with capacities for intense sexual pleasure and with a calling to commitment in marriage and continence in singleness.

The abuse of sex in every form and shape - adultery, fornication (premarital sex), illicit fantasies, masturbation, pornography, homosexual behaviour, rape, sexual child abuse, exhibitionism and so on, is not the will of God but acts inspired by the devil.

NOT KNOWING GOD LEADS TO SEXUAL IMMORALITY

The bible teaches that any believer, who indulges in any kind of sexual abuses sins against God and is living in deception without truly knowing Him, even though He may profess faith in Christ.

This is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God. (1 Thessalonians 4: 3-5)

All sexual corruption serves to conceal the true knowledge of Christ. Knowing Christ more fully in all His infinite supremacy is designed as a way of guarding, guiding and governing our sexuality.

Peter's second letter has one of the clearest passages in the Bible on the relationship between knowing God and being liberated from corruption.

His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. (2 Peter 1:3-4) 

SUPREMACY OF CHRIST

The only path then to sexual purity is through the knowledge of the supremacy of Christ by meditating on the word of God, which is His revealed will and by the leading of His Holy Spirit. This is not just a scholarly knowledge about Him which is merely intellectual but spiritual understanding through divine revelation.

Christ is the visible image of the invisible God. He existed before anything was created and is supreme over all creation, for through Him God created everything in the heavenly realms and on earth. He made the things we can see and the things we can't see - such as thrones, kingdoms, rulers and authorities in the unseen world. Everything was created through Him and for Him. He existed before anything else, and He holds all creation together. (Colossians 1:15-17)

Christ died to make our everlasting future bright with the supremacy of His own glory. Knowing the supremacy of Christ - being satisfied with all that God is for us in Jesus - gives us the power to be pure in our bodies and our sexuality.

Let us know,
Let us pursue the knowledge of the Lord.
His going forth is established as the morning; He will come to us like the rain,
Like the latter and former rain to the earth. (Hosea 6:3)